Common Misconceptions about Martial Arts

Be it because of Hollywood, semi-false marketing by McDojos, or whatever other reason, most people have the wrong idea of what martial arts are before they even step on a mat, ring or floor.  So to help you future martial artists (and maybe instructors), I thought I'd make a list of common misconceptions that people have about martial arts so you can have a more informed idea of what you're getting into if you decide to sign up at your local dojo.

Size and strength don't matter in a fight as long as you've trained in martial arts

One of the biggest myths perpetuated by both Hollywood and certain martial arts schools alike is that "size doesn't matter" if you've been properly trained in their style. Having more knowledge, better technique and being better trained will definitely increase your chances of winning a fight or surviving a self-defense situation against a larger and stronger attacker.

Realistically, if you have two equally-trained and equally-skilled individuals, the larger and stronger person will have an obvious advantage. If you still don't believe me, think about why both professional and Olympic combat sports have weight classes.

Gabi Garcia vs Megumi Yabushita in a Shootboxing match in 2017.

Fight ended in "No Contest" due to an illegal kick, but really, who do you think won this fight?

 

Martial arts will turn kids into "disciplined" people

With the market for most traditional martial arts schools being kids, they will usually try to sell themselves by saying that they will help your kids become more disciplined. Is that true? More or less.

Any type of structured, difficult activity has the potential to build discipline.  This applies to martial arts, but also activities like dance, learning a musical instrument, creative writing and even team sports. If the person practicing the activity ends up liking it and wants to improve their skills at that activity, then yes, they become "disciplined".  That discipline might transfer to everything else they want to succeed in.

However, while martial arts can be that starting point of a disciplined life for some people, it won't be the case for all people.

Martial arts will make kids "bully-proof"

A lot of martial arts schools will market their kids classes as a way to keep kids from being bullied.  Presumably, kids are supposed to learn how to defend themselves against physical attacks on the school yard.  Yes, that can be useful as a last resort for a kid who is getting picked on.  However, a lot of bullying is now happening on a psychological basis, especially with online bullying through social media.  A kid who's being bullied will benefit more from developing social skills that help them deal and de-escalate conflicts before the first punch is even thrown.  If the conflict turns physical because the de-escalation tactics didn't work, only then will the fighting skills come in handy.

Being in a martial arts school might help some kids who are being bullied by allowing them to make more friends with common interests, and thus allow them to develop the necessary social skills.  Yes, being able to overcome adversity in a controlled environment will help develop the self-esteem needed to stand up for themselves.  But that's not something that a kid will learn after a month or two of punching and kicking in a karate class a couple of times a week.  This is a process that can take years not only of training but of interacting with people of different walks of life.

There are "secret techniques" that are "too dangerous" for full contact competition

No, there aren't.  The myth of "secret techniques" are perpetuated by lazy and/or delusional people who want to pretend that they can knock down a gang of attackers using nothing but a wave of their hand.

There are no such things as "no-touch" knockouts and "chi-blasts" that require very little effort to stop a resisting attacker.  If there were, with the ubiquity of the Internet and video technology, we would have seen legitimate practitioners by now.  If someone, somewhere in the world of martial arts was truly able to "summon their inner chi" and shoot fireballs out of their fingers or lightning bolts out of their butt, it would already be on the Internet and they would be making millions of dollars by dominating opponents at the largest MMA promotions in the world.

Effective, but illegal technique done in competition

Sure, certain attacks like eye poking, small joint manipulation, attacking the groin and biting are illegal in rules-based competition. Yes these can be effective, devastating techniques, but there's nothing secret or mysterious about them.  They're just not allowed in competitions because we want to see a bit more of a fair contest and less fights ended by serious injuries.

Martial arts are the same as self-defense

This kind of goes back to using fighting skills against bullies.  Fighting techniques learned in a martial class might be able help if you're being physically attacked.  However, avoiding a situation that can lead to that physical attack is actually more effective as a "self defense" measure.

That means not hanging out too much in bars and night clubs.  That means learning to be more aware of your surroundings when walking to your car at night.  That means avoiding dark alleys alone in the middle of the night.  That also means handing over your wallet and/or car keys to stranger pointing a gun at you.  These are things that most martial arts schools will pay lip service to, but won't really practice.

Again, if you get stuck and you can't avoid a situation, some techniques learned can save you, but you're better off not being in that certain situation in the first place.

You need to register as a "deadly weapon" when you become a black belt

Anybody who tells you that they're registered as some kind of weapon because of their martial arts black belt rank is either a liar or delusional. This kind of person is definitely not the type of person you want to be giving martial arts instruction to you or your kids.

A simple Internet search will tell you that there are no laws in Canada, the US, the UK or in Western Europe requiring that martial arts practitioners of a certain rank be registered because they can deal out deadly force with their bare hands.  It is true that some people have the ability to kill with their superior technique (think of a Brazilian jujitsu black belt who can choke out 95% of the population), but no government registration is required.

The closest thing that I can think of are anecdotes from martial artists living in former Eastern Block and USSR countries who were asked by the government to register their martial arts ranks during the Cold War era.  That's about the extent of it but even then I haven't been able to corroborate that.

Conclusion

For people looking to sign their kids or themselves up to a martial arts school, it's important to know these common misconceptions. You're not to blame for not knowing any of these, but hopefully reading this will give you an idea of what it is you're signing up for.  Enjoy and happy training!

Violence Might Be a "Good Answer"

Our modern, relatively peaceful society will always teach that when it comes to resolving conflicts, "Violence isn't the answer."  I would respectfully argue that this adage is B.S.

I'm not advocating that we should go around starting fights and walking around being bullies.

What I'm advocating is that everyone at some point in their lives should be put in a controlled setting that simulates, in the most accurate way possible, a real-life, violent situation. In order to create a society made up of individuals who are unwilling to resort to violence, everyone in that society should know what it feels like to be in a violent situation.  And they should know that from a young age.

This comes down to a very strange observation that we notice when you look at high-level martial artists and professional fighters.  If you ever meet such people, you'll notice that these people are usually mellow, calm and very unlikely to get into heated arguments that lead to physical confrontations outside of competition or training.

The other side of the coin is that most of the people who encourage violence are the ones who have no concept of violence and its consequences. That is, people who have never even trained in any type of martial art, combat sport, or even military service.

Why is that?

One "tongue-in-cheek" hypothesis is that martial artists and combat athletes have trained so hard that they're too tired to get into useless fights. Another is that because they've reached such a high level of skill in fighting that they have gained confidence in what they can do, thus reducing any insecurities that would generally goad the average person into a physical altercation.

My hypothesis:
People who are trained in fighting and martial arts, people who have knowledge of the damage the techniques they practice can cause, know that the consequences of a fight can be dire. Once you get into a physical altercation, anyone of the parties involved are risking loss of consciousness, broken bones requiring surgery and months of rehab, permanent neurological damage, permanent physical paralysis, and of course death.  Of course, getting in street fights can also have life-changing legal consequences.

When someone is properly trained and are taught these consequences, they are more likely to avoid violent situations, unless their and their loved-ones safety are threatened.

This kind of exposure also prevents verbal abuse and bullying at a young age.  Learning that being verbally abusive can quickly escalate into physical aggression and its consequences is a great deterrent for this kind of behaviour.

I know it seems counter-intuitive, but exposing your kids to controlled, violent situations and clearly explaining the potential consequences will lead them to avoid violence.  Teaching kids martial arts is probably the best way to do this.  It would stop bullying, it would stop disrespectful behaviour, it will develop physical and mental resilience, instill discipline and hopefully prevent future violent crime.