Violence Might Be a "Good Answer"

Our modern, relatively peaceful society will always teach that when it comes to resolving conflicts, "Violence isn't the answer."  I would respectfully argue that this adage is B.S.

I'm not advocating that we should go around starting fights and walking around being bullies.

What I'm advocating is that everyone at some point in their lives should be put in a controlled setting that simulates, in the most accurate way possible, a real-life, violent situation. In order to create a society made up of individuals who are unwilling to resort to violence, everyone in that society should know what it feels like to be in a violent situation.  And they should know that from a young age.

This comes down to a very strange observation that we notice when you look at high-level martial artists and professional fighters.  If you ever meet such people, you'll notice that these people are usually mellow, calm and very unlikely to get into heated arguments that lead to physical confrontations outside of competition or training.

The other side of the coin is that most of the people who encourage violence are the ones who have no concept of violence and its consequences. That is, people who have never even trained in any type of martial art, combat sport, or even military service.

Why is that?

One "tongue-in-cheek" hypothesis is that martial artists and combat athletes have trained so hard that they're too tired to get into useless fights. Another is that because they've reached such a high level of skill in fighting that they have gained confidence in what they can do, thus reducing any insecurities that would generally goad the average person into a physical altercation.

My hypothesis:
People who are trained in fighting and martial arts, people who have knowledge of the damage the techniques they practice can cause, know that the consequences of a fight can be dire. Once you get into a physical altercation, anyone of the parties involved are risking loss of consciousness, broken bones requiring surgery and months of rehab, permanent neurological damage, permanent physical paralysis, and of course death.  Of course, getting in street fights can also have life-changing legal consequences.

When someone is properly trained and are taught these consequences, they are more likely to avoid violent situations, unless their and their loved-ones safety are threatened.

This kind of exposure also prevents verbal abuse and bullying at a young age.  Learning that being verbally abusive can quickly escalate into physical aggression and its consequences is a great deterrent for this kind of behaviour.

I know it seems counter-intuitive, but exposing your kids to controlled, violent situations and clearly explaining the potential consequences will lead them to avoid violence.  Teaching kids martial arts is probably the best way to do this.  It would stop bullying, it would stop disrespectful behaviour, it will develop physical and mental resilience, instill discipline and hopefully prevent future violent crime.